Let's discuss my personal understanding of single men.

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It's been a while since I wrote in my journal. I'm at work now and have a little free time, so I suddenly thought about the issue of single men. Having participated in many events, I'd like to share my thoughts on the role and position of single men in couples' dating activities, as well as the current situation of single men on 69.com. Let's discuss this together. I'll just write whatever comes to mind, so please bear with me.
Personally, I believe that single men should have a service-oriented mindset, sincerity, sexual skills, attentiveness, patience, etc.
First, let's talk about service-oriented mindset. Couples go out for activities after a long period of persuasion and guidance, and the hardship involved is something single men can't understand. They don't go out purely for thrills; most of them love their wives very much and want their life partners to enjoy happiness and pleasure that other women can't easily experience. In turn, the wives will love their husbands even more. I always feel that threesomes and swapping threesomes better demonstrate the husband's deep love for his wife, haha! Therefore, it's perfectly understandable for couples to be selective about their single partners within the single-man group. Single men shouldn't complain, as couples put in far more effort than we do! It's an honor for us single men to even begin this activity, so we should treat it with the same care and attention we would give to our girlfriends or partners! First and foremost, ensuring the happiness of the couples, especially their wives, is crucial. All activities should prioritize the wives. Don't expect your wife to perform oral sex on you; instead, focus on performing oral sex and caressing on your wife as much as possible.
Next, let's talk about sincerity and character. For example, if I add a couple or a couple adds me, I'll immediately tell them I'm single and send them my own photo. I never ask for photos of the couple; they'll give them to me if they approve. There's no rush. I won't proactively ask questions, and I'll answer every question. Also, don't rush to inquire about the couple's situation; this will annoy them. Wait patiently, and you might be pleasantly surprised—and it really will be! Another point I personally believe is that when a single man meets a woman he really likes—that is, the wife of a married couple—if she doesn't reciprocate his feelings, then the single man shouldn't keep bothering her; he has no chance. Another situation is if the couple has had one activity together, and then doesn't want to have another one with him; in that case, he shouldn't keep bothering her either. Yet another situation is long-term relationships. I have a long-term married couple, and we've organized four or five activities together. I don't actively request activities; I'm always on standby. Of course, the prerequisite is that we communicate beforehand about when I'm free. Most of the time, the couple notifies me of the activities, and then I go if I'm available. My approach is... The key is to avoid disturbing the other person's normal life as much as possible. If you do this well, they'll think of you first when they want to participate in activities, especially private meetings with their spouse. I consider this a no-go zone unless the husband agrees. It's important to make the couple feel safe. Speaking of safety, I mentioned this in my last blog post. As a single man, I won't ask to use my phone to take photos during activities. If the couple has taken photos, I'll just look at them on their phones and that's enough. Taking photos makes the other person feel insecure, in case I accidentally leak them someday, or for other reasons, right? I don't know about others, but I definitely won't take photos. I try my best to protect their safety and be considerate of them! Currently, I personally feel that over 90% of the couples I've met on 69 haven't participated in any activities before; they're still observing. Most of my friends and couples I've participated in with before are doing this for the first time. Many of the couples I'm still chatting with haven't participated in any real-life activities. Perhaps one of them will be the next couple I serve. Of course, I'm happy to bring them joy, and I'll also gain joy from it! So it's not that the couples aren't sincere, but rather that they feel a lot of pressure and worry about taking this first step, especially the wife's fear. It depends on how you, as a single man, bridge the gap with them. Don't put pressure on them; instead, project a sense of closeness, maturity, and a feeling that makes them feel safe and comfortable spending time with you.
Next, let's talk about sexual techniques, attentiveness, and patience. Attentiveness mainly involves observing the wife's reactions, noticing her state, where she reacts less strongly, and adjusting accordingly. Patience means being patient and not rushing. Pay attention to the husband's eye contact or subtle gestures to prepare for the next step. Of course, it's best to communicate with your husband beforehand to ensure a smooth and coordinated experience. A sudden change in the husband's mind during the activity can affect the single man's arousal and distract him from the sexual activity or psychological state, thus affecting the performance of both men. As for sexual techniques, I think most people know them, just with slight differences in techniques and oral sex. My sexual techniques mainly involve hand massage and oiling, which is equivalent to all-around caressing, combined with oral sex. Oiling is very effective in getting the wife into the mood. This process is very enjoyable for all three of us. I really enjoy watching my wife moan under my hands and mouth while my husband whispers in her ear, "Is it good?" Then the wife moaned and said, "So comfortable, honey!" Oh, what a wonderful and fulfilling thing! Couples, I love you all so much! Thank you for your support. I will repay you with my hard work and dedicated service! Long live couples' friendship!
Perhaps some will say I'm making a big deal out of this, talking about service spirit and feelings. Haha, this is just a reflection I had when I was alone. I'm sharing this for criticism or praise, and I do have my reasons for advertising. After all, before we've added each other on QQ and gotten to know each other, writing down my thoughts is a way to find activity partners. It allows them to have some understanding of me before adding me. Maybe I'm lucky. Again, thank you to the couples who have participated in previous activities. You gave me the opportunity to experience joy, excitement, novelty, and satisfaction. Thank you for your trust!

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