My honest feelings about dating as a couple (combining other people's experiences and my own personal experience)

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While browsing online, I stumbled upon this place. I joined as a single man and admired the artwork and beautiful photos of the wives of the experienced members. I read many genuine and touching articles.
I never imagined that such a community existed in China, a country bound by thousands of years of traditional cultural constraints. Initially, I felt excited, but as I immersed myself in the photos and articles, a burning passion seemed to ignite within me. This desire was hard to resist. After gaining a deeper understanding, I began exchanging messages with some married couples on QQ, particularly interested in mature couples. After all, mature friends possess a greater sense of elegance and sophistication. Perhaps elegance and sophistication have nothing to do with age, but they are definitely honed through life experiences.
I think this might be why I've always admired mature women. After observing for a while, I found that single men constitute the largest group in this community, inevitably leading to some individuals with low character and a lack of understanding of the rules. As the saying goes, "In a large forest, you'll find all kinds of birds." This mixed bag also affects the overall impression of single men. Whether married couples, single men, or the very few single women, we are all part of a community, and friendships should be based on sincerity, equality, and respect.
Below is a brief discussion of my understanding of couples engaging in casual sexual encounters. Please feel free to correct any inaccuracies. 1. Psychological Needs of Couples Engaging in Casual Sexual Encounters. Because this form of sexual encounter is not mainstream and is not recognized by current social ethics and morality, couples must be prepared both physiologically and psychologically to achieve maximum pleasure; otherwise, it will only backfire. In actual couples engaging in casual sexual encounters, the husband's sexual orientation is crucial. The husband must genuinely possess the complex psychological stimulation that arises from his wife's sexual encounters with other men. Although the woman often participates relatively passively because of her husband, she must also be psychologically able to withstand the complex emotions brought about by this game. In other words, both partners must first psychologically accept this game. Casual sexual encounters can add spice to married life and improve the quality of married life, maximizing the value of spiritual resources. 2. Physiological Needs of Couples Engaging in Casual Sexual Encounters. The sex itself during casual sexual encounters is not much different from that between spouses. It's just that seeking different sexual partners (age, occupation, height, weight, skin color, smell, etc.) (including sexual techniques, habits, and preferences) and experiencing different physiological sensations is another layer of need in couples engaging in casual sexual encounters. It's not simply about sexual stimulation and indulgence. 3. Visual Needs in Couples' Friendships. Visual appeal is extremely important. Good feelings develop from the first impression (the result of visual perception). It's normal for people to like beautiful things. Couples or groups of three must be able to accept each other's appearance to lay the foundation for successful friendships. 4. Honesty Needs in Couples' Friendships. Frankly, the level of honesty among Chinese people seems to be declining with the development of material civilization. One thing is certain: couples or single men who successfully make friends on this forum must be honest with each other, communicate sincerely, and treat each other kindly. Therefore, making friends with honesty and sincerity should have a high success rate. 5. Rules Needs in Couples' Friendships. Here, "rules" refers to following the rules. Four or three people should be in an atmosphere of mutual honesty, not engaging in unrestrained promiscuous activities. Maintaining a relatively stable friendship within a relatively fixed time frame is crucial. Don't affect each other's lives, and certainly don't damage marital relationships. Don't interfere with each other's private space. If you feel good together, be friends; if not, say goodbye politely. Next, I'd like to share my personal reflections on making friends. In this forum, I've had substantial friendships with two sincere couples, and we still keep in touch. Here, I send my blessings to the two couples in Guangzhou and Jiangmen, wishing you good health and family happiness. 1. A single man should exude sincerity. Relationships are reciprocal; sincerity begets sincerity. 2. A single man should consider the feelings of the couple. If the couple is happy, the whole process is enjoyable. Otherwise, everyone is unhappy. 3. It's best if the single man can project an approachable demeanor, preventing awkwardness and allowing everyone to relax. 4. A single man should possess good qualities and broad knowledge. During the initial meeting, he can engage in conversation with the couple, avoiding awkward silences. 5. Once the main topic is established, give the husband more opportunities, allowing the couple to experience how the process enhances their relationship. Don't steal the spotlight. 6. Single men should possess certain skills in key moments, selflessly using their persuasive abilities to please the lady. Remember, the lady is the protagonist throughout the entire process. 7. Don't interfere with the other person's married life. After all, being single offers relative freedom, while couples bear the responsibilities of a family. This is extremely important, and I want to emphasize this point to all single men, as it involves personal privacy and responsibility. 8. Single men should communicate more with married couples to understand their interests and hobbies. For example, some couples have a penchant for silkworms or enjoy BDSM, etc. Try to cater to their preferences. Those with different interests will naturally go in different directions. 9. Share every wonderful experience with everyone. (This is self-criticism, haha, I'll write about my successful dating experiences when I have the chance.) Finally, thank you to the forum and all the moderators for providing such a great platform for dating. May all married friends be happy and fulfilled, and on the basis of sincerity and understanding, promote harmonious development while maintaining their own families and lives.

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