Why it's hard to find a suitable couple

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Before marrying my partner, I considered finding a spouse, and then I searched, waited, and met... Years passed, and the thought became a dream, as unattainable as my childhood fantasies of becoming a doctor, lawyer, or astronaut. Finding a suitable spouse is even less likely than my wife getting pregnant unexpectedly. This led me to a question: why is finding a suitable spouse so difficult?
If it's said that a man pursuing a woman is like climbing a mountain, and a woman pursuing a man is like piercing a thin veil, then what separates spouses?
I remember my partner saying that if I went out naked, I'd be beaten to death, and I said she'd be raped too—after all, there are more radishes than fertile spots, and flowers don't actively seek out bees. However, spouses are neither flowers nor bees; they're more like hermaphroditic beings, attracted to each other, wanting to both have sex and be had by their own kind. From this perspective, it should be easier than casual sex between ordinary men and women, right? So why is it so difficult for people of our kind, attracted to each other, to meet?
Is it because we all live underground?
The fact that it can't be done in the open limits our actions. Even with daily searches, we can only explore a very small area. We don't even know if our friends play it, and even if we did, we'd exclude them due to various subsequent problems. If asking someone, "Do you play partner swapping?" were as casual as asking, "Do you play League of Legends?", things would be much easier... So the greatest distance in the world isn't that you're right next to me but don't know I love you, but that couples pass each other by without knowing they can create two -18cm...
Fortunately, we have the internet, but then another problem arises...
Searching for a real-life partner in the virtual world is like a group of masked people groping in the fog. They finally meet someone, but neither is willing to take off their mask. Even if someone takes off their mask, they might still be wearing another one. And some people actually take off their masks and scare you half to death. Of course, there are also suitable people who are willing to take off their masks for you at any time, but they are thousands of miles away. So...
the result is this: it's a matter of chance. Those who live nearby are too unattractive, those who are beautiful have too high standards, those with low standards might lack manners, those with good manners are often single men, and suitable couples are often separated by several provinces...
Suddenly, I remember many couples displaying the label of "sincerity." I don't understand what sincerity means here. If it means "[we are really a couple, and we really want to engage in couple-based dating]," then most couples are sincere. But while being sincere, we also consciously or unconsciously take various precautions and make various demands on each other... So I think it's impossible to be truly sincere in this kind of thing; we just hope the other person is more sincere.
Finally, I continue searching and waiting.

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