Because there is no such thing as perfect sex

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In sexual life, not only is technique important, but also the psychological experience. However, people often ruin a perfect and healthy sex life and struggle to reach orgasm due to various small details. Below, we'll look at six killers of healthy sex, so please pay attention during your lovemaking!

Lack of foreplay
: Going straight to the point or being too forceful before sufficient foreplay can delay female orgasm. Renowned New York sex expert Hirschman says, "Men mistakenly believe that skipping foreplay will make women orgasm quickly, but in reality, it takes longer and is less effective." Experts suggest slowing down, having more verbal communication and hugging, which can help both partners achieve orgasm simultaneously. External factors affecting orgasm during sex require focus, so avoid distractions.

Sexologist
Dr. Daniel Arell says to make sure to turn off the TV, computer, and mobile phone in the room, allowing both partners to be in a completely private space. Also, don't expect simultaneous orgasms; each person should focus on their own pleasure. If one partner orgasms first, then next time, pay more attention to the other.

While asking about your partner's feelings
during sex can help maintain rhythm, constantly asking "How are you feeling?" or "Is it comfortable?" can create psychological pressure and make your partner feel insecure. Hirschman suggests using body language and facial expressions to convey your feelings, such as rapid breathing and vigorous movements. Dr. Daniel Arell says that when a woman is approaching orgasm, the man should maintain the same

intensity
and rhythm. If the man suddenly increases the intensity or speed, the woman's accumulated sensations will be wasted. So when a woman says "Don't stop," just maintain the frequency, not become more intense. Some men watch

pornography
and get "inspiration" from it, believing that sex should be as intense, dramatic, and technically sophisticated as in pornography. But Hirschman says that always trying to imitate pornography and treating sex as a performance will backfire. What truly unlocks a woman's orgasm is intimate language and actions, not clumsy, silly techniques.

Talking about topics other than sex:
During sex, appropriate affirmation and praise can increase spice, but bringing up unpleasant topics can interrupt sex and affect orgasm. For example, suddenly asking if your partner has brushed their teeth, or mentioning food in the kitchen that hasn't been put in the refrigerator, can instantly kill any sexual interest.

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